Category: Ramblings

When Questions Become Performative

There is one type of Facebook post that has always fascinated me—not the requests for recommendations (“Who’s the best plumber?”), and not questions that genuinely benefit from local knowledge or personal experience. I’m talking about posts asking for objective facts. “Where can I get steak tips” “Is Target open today?” “What time is the Patriots […]

Good Beats Nice

Most people believe being nice is a virtue. But niceness often avoids conflict, accountability, and truth. Here’s why being a good person matters more than being a nice one.

Read What Sticks in ’26

Here’s what I’m readin’. Follow me on Goodreads. August Orbital July It Was All a Lie Regime Change June James May April Their Eyes Were Watching God March 7 Rules of Power In the Lives of Puppets February Disorderly Men January I Make Envy on Your Disco Flesh

When Leadership Becomes Performance

Across public higher education, there are institutions where the machinery of governance still hums but the spirit that once powered it has stalled. Leadership meetings occur on schedule, strategic plans are cited in slide decks, and community updates are filled with the right vocabulary of innovation and inclusion. Yet within the walls of these colleges—and, […]

Holding Steady in Change

In complex times, steady leadership is not optional. It’s what holds teams together, builds trust, and drives meaningful progress when clarity is hardest to find.

Taking Stock: High Vibration in a Low-Frequency World

Somewhere along the way, I stopped expecting applause. I stopped expecting that doing the right thing would be rewarded, that advocating for others would earn loyalty, or that holding people accountable would inspire change. I learned that showing up with clarity, consistency, and compassion can make you a target just as quickly as it makes […]

The Five Weeks of April

We live in ‘thirty-day months.’ We do not always control the landscape we inherit. But great leaders learn to work not just within those frames — but between them.